Here is my Top Priority Statement- My Top Priority is to be a loving and present wife and mother. I want to demonstrate by my actions that my husband and children are more important to me than any personal pursuit. I want to work to improve my relationship with my husband and children and to provide the best possible environment for my family, so that in that environment they will thrive. I want to limit activities, pursuits, and relationships that take me away from my family and weigh all decisions against what would be most beneficial to my family.
First of all, yes I know I don't have children yet (hopefully next year!) but I still wanted them included in my statement. Taking the time to think through and define this statement has really helped make certain decisions easier. For instance I had though of joining the national guard. Being in the military was always something I wanted to do, but after defining this statement... it will definitely take me away from my family at times, so it is no longer something I am pursing. Also, I was able to define my top three priorities and place them in order- Family, health, Home, which has allowed me to not stress so much if my house doesn't get cleaned every week- especially if that cleaning time is being spent playing games with Chad or watching movies together, or working on my health. Before, I would get super stressed and mad that it wasn't all done every Sunday, but now while I still want a clean house, it doesn't have to always be done at the same time every week, if other priorities are present.
My goals and mini goals for this year are:
Red means completed Items
Blue means in progress items
Black means future items
1. I have two date nights, a month, with Chad.
a. I have a job 11/5/12
b. I have a budget 1/31/13
c. I have created a budget category for dates 1/31/13
d. I put $50/month into date category 3/28/13
e. I put $75/month into date category 6/30/13
2. I maintain my weight of 130 pounds, with a body fat % below 25%
a. I weigh 155lbs 11/20/12
b. I weigh 150lbs 2/28/13
c. I have a BF% of 30% 2/28/13
d. I weigh 145lbs 4/30/13
e. I weigh 140lbs 6/30/13
f. I have a BF% of 28.5% 6/30/13
g. I weigh 135lbs 8/31/13
h. I weigh 130lbs 10/31/13
i. I have a BF% of 25% 10/31/13
3 I have a steady job and have a monthly income that pays all of our monthly bills (minus rent and utilities)
a. I have finished my teacher work sample 6/30/13
b. I have finished my paperwork and graduated 12/31/13
c. I have a job 11/5/12
d. I have created and follow a budget 1/31/13
4. I spend 4 hours a week (writing, expanding, promoting) and it has over 10,000 pageviews
a. My blog has 4,500 pageviews 11/30/12
b. I join 1 linky parties a week 11/30/12
c. I plan next months post half way through previous month 11/30/12
d. I post to pinterest from blog once a week 11/30/12
e. My blog has 5,000 pageviews 12/31/12
f. I join two linky parties a week 12/31/12
g. I have created a facebook page for my blogs 1/31/13
h. My blog has 5,500 pageviews 1/31/13
i. I host one linky party a week 1/31/13
j. I use google analytics 1/31/13
k. I do one series a month 1/31/13
l. My blog has 6,000 pageviews 2/28/13
m. My blog is SEO optimized 2/28/13
n. My blog has hit 6,500 pageviews 3/31/13
o. I use Adwords Keyword tool 3/31/13
p. My blog has hit 7,000 pageviews 4/30/13
q. I have research StumbleUpon and Reddit and used them, if appropriate 4/30/13
r. My blog has hit 7,500 pageviews 5/31/13
s. My blog has hit 8,000 pageviews 6/30/13
t. I do one giveaway a month 6/30/13
u. My blog has hit 8,500 pageviews 7/31/13
v. My blog has hit 9,000 pageviews 8/31/13
w. My blog has hit 9,500 pageviews 9/30/13
x. My blog has hit 10,000 pageviews 10/31/13
y. I do two giveaways a month 12/31/13
5.I have paid off 10 of our smallest debts
a. I have a job 11/5/12
b. I have created a budget 1/31/13
c. I have saved $500 in emergency fund 2/28/13
d. I have paid off smallest debt 3/31/13
e. I have paid off second smallest debt 4/30/13
f. I have paid off third smallest debt 5/31/13
g. I have paid off fourth smallest debt 6/30/13
h. I have paid off fifth smallest debt 7/31/13
i. I have paid off sixth smallest debt 8/31/13
j. I have paid off seventh smallest debt 9/30/13
k. I have paid off eighth smallest debt 10/31/13
l. I have paid off ninth smallest debt 11/30/13
m. I have paid off tenth smallest debt 12/31/13
6. I tithe 20% of our income
a. I have a job 11/5/12
b. I have created a budget 1/31/13
c. I tithe 5% of our income 3/31/13
d. I tithe 10% of our income 6/30/13
e. I tithe 15% of our income 9/30/13
f. I tithe 20% of our income 12/31/13
7. I have run a 10k under 45 minutes.
a. I walk a 5k under 45 minutes 3/31/13
b. I run/walk 3x a week 3/31/13
c. I workout 5x a week 3/31/13
d. I run 3x a week 5/31/13
e. I run 4x a week 7/31/13
f. I run 5x a week 9/30/13
g. I run a 5k 1x a week 3/31/13
h. I have completed HH novice 5k training 3/31/13
i. I have completed HH novice 10k training 7/31/13
j. I have run a 5k under 25 minutes 8/31/13
k. I have completed HH Intermediate 10k training 9/30/13
l. I have completed HH Advanced 10k training 11/30/13
8.I have seen a dermatologist and gotten by birth mark removed and my hands treated.
a. I have a job 11/5/12
b. I have seen a dermatologist 6/30/13
9. I spend 30 minutes a day relaxing without using electronics
a. I get off electronics by 9pm 11/15/12
b. I get off electronics by 8pm 11/30/12
c. I plan menus half way through the previous month 12/31/12
d. I prep as much as possible on shopping day 2/28/13
e. I have created a weekly cleaning schedule 3/30/13
f. I have finished my binders 2/28/13
g. I maintain my binder system 2/28/13
10. I attend church every weekend and am on the Bookstore team.
a. I attend church once a week 2/28/13
b. I have filled out bookstore application 2/28/13
11. I am a beachbody coach 12/31/13
a. I have a job 11/5/12
b. I have a budget 1/31/13
c. I have saved up enough for a challenge pack 4/30/13
Sorry about the spacing... it copied and pasted weird!
As you can see I tried to cover every area of my life- spouse, finances, career (including a future career), fitness, and rest. And as you can see I am making progress on some... A big help in my goals was getting a job and this was the first item I focused on...
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